Question: “I had a really great childhood, and I think I’ve made it to adulthood pretty successfully. I am happily married to a wonderful man and have extremely high hopes for our future. However, in the first months of my marriage, I was so frustrated during an argument with my husband that I scratched his face and left a mark. I haven’t done it again, but I don’t ever want a repeat. Can you help me uncover where this propensity for violence is coming from, before we bring children into this house?”